Life’s full of questions, change, times when the big questions need big answers, or small bite sized answers that you can allow yourself to breathe, reflect and adjust the direction or way you need to tackle… the Big Questions???  Remember… in a year will this issue even be on the radar or your timeline?  Is it needing addressing or is it created by something or someone else and NOT your issue.  

I’ve watched family and friends find themselves in moments when they felt they had more time and it wasn’t to be… these times are really difficult for everyone. We all have different relationships, we need to ensure we tell those we love RIGHT NOW that WE LOVE THEM… What are we waiting for? It isn’t a strength to be silent (who came up with the Strong silent type anyway…  let’s not digress) life in the physical world is finite, our spirit infinite but not everyone can feel the spirit of another, and when times are low and our radar may not realise those who have gone still remain.

So… long story short, please take the time to make the call, send a card or letter, stop and speak with the ones who make our life special, build your life full of moments that are memorable not forgettable, say the words that are hard… I love you, I’m sorry, let’s go do… I’m here, I want to, I need to, not I wish I had… don’t regret the things you didn’t do and make the time to do the things you want or need to do… work out what purpose you have in life for yourself and how that can help or reflect on others… your friends, family, community… life just isn’t a dress rehearsal but the big live show… what’s your headline? how will you be remembered… take a moment and reflect on What lies between?